Dear LIB bookworms: I'm not physically pulled in to my man

From a female LIB onlooker

 I have been involved with my man for something like year and a half. When I first reached him, I never thought anything might get over it. I ordinarily disregarded him and never provided for him an excess of thought as he is quite physically not the same as what I am generally pulled in to in a man. With time, I gradually understood that his character and emotional disposition is all that I have ever trusted, imagined and fantasized about. No joking. I chose to provide for us a possibility. It has been year and a half now and he has begun discussing long haul plans i.e getting hitched. The issue is, at whatever point I meet or run across anybody with the physical ascribes I am pulled in to, I begin to second figure the entire relationship as I here and there desire individuals who have these physical characteristics. I truly can't help it. I would prefer not to undermine this man in the event that we in the end get hitched however I fear this may happen. I truly cherish this man however this is excessively confounding. Has anybody ever encountered this problem? How could you have been able to you handle it? What amount of does physical presence play in the long pursue (i.e you are wedded)? Sensible reactions please.